Social transparency? How about honesty.

The word “Transparency” is being overused by us communicators and social media folk.

What happened to words like “honest”, “candid” and “sincere”? They’re great for describing human exchanges, and they’re not used disingenuously by CEOs, elected officials and spokespeople to describe their relationships with stakeholders.

I feel like honesty, sincerity, and candidness are more closely connected with ideas of human morality. Transparency has to do with optimization; finding a balance between sharing information and protecting proprietary knowledge in order to maximize trust and minimize loss of competitive advantage or stakeholder’s personal information.

Why am I saying this?

I noticed a status post on Facebook today by a well-known person in social media who I’m friends with. They were mentioning that they tend to make the occasional negative post, or share personal thoughts differently on Facebook, because they see it as a more personal channel than Twitter. They were asking honestly if their friends and “friendz” minded this.

One of the comments in the thread beneath it thanked them for being “Transparent”.

I shook my head. I hope that it was said in jest, but for some reason I get the impression it wasn’t.

Put up your hand if your response to your spouse or significant other saying “I love you” has ever been “Thanks for being transparent”? I don’t expect to see many hands.

What about this scenario:

A good friend says “Thanks for helping out, I was having a tough day.”

Which of the following would you respond to this sincere thank-you with:

  1. It’s my pleasure, you’ve been there for me in the past.
  2. Don’t mention it, I was maximizing your shareholder value!
  3. Hey, what’re friends for?

It’s a bit of a ridiculous example, but you probably get my point. You’d most likely answer with 1) or 3) but not 2).

Keep the formal corp-speak for the boardroom.

Am I the only one getting tired of terms frequently used in government and corporate mission statements being used to describe social exchanges? Am I overreacting here?  I’d like to hear your take.

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5 Responses to “Social transparency? How about honesty.”


  1. 1 Will O'Neill December 8, 2009 at 1:12 pm

    I’ve never heard of the word ‘transparency’ being defined as finding some sort of balance between disclosure and omission – transparency is a synonym for openness, period.

    As for people who talk like that in social exchanges, they are nerds.

    I think that’s all.

    • 2 Rick December 8, 2009 at 2:05 pm

      Hey Will,

      I’m talking about transparency as it’s commonly used in business. The degree of openness applied is a balance; optimized to fulfill certain responsibilities, keep stakeholders happy, maximize trust, and at the same time protect proprietary information.

      According to the dictionary definition, you’re absolutely right.

      You’re also right about people being nerds. ;)

  2. 3 Rayanne Langdon December 14, 2009 at 8:12 pm

    Oh man, I TOTALLY agree! I’m starting to hate all the buzz words we use that were meant to make us less corporate sounding in the first place. I HATE the word “networking” and I’m starting to dislike “community”, even.

  3. 4 ninadrianna April 22, 2010 at 3:33 pm

    Don’t all words have the possibility of becoming co-opted by organizational jargon? As soon as a corporate value or goal is ‘honesty’, I think it’s in danger of going down the road of being overused, misused, and eventually annoying.

    • 5 Rick May 23, 2010 at 2:53 pm

      I suppose that’s why languages are always evolving, and words and expressions are continually falling in and out of fashion.


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